Who’s really got the edge in this dating game? Is it the men or the women? Who’s got the bigger handicap?

One guy says, “Women have it easier. They can just wait and look pretty. We have to do most of the work. They just have to choose.”

One girl says, “Men have it better. Especially if they aren’t looking for love but just a lay (which is often the case), there are hundreds of women out there they can choose from. They just select and collect from the fillies they see”.

That’s the crux of it! Men look for fun and just maybe stumble on one that will last. Women, no matter what they say, get their emotions involved and are really out looking for long term relationship. While they all flirt and preen, the goals are different.

Guy says, “Problem is I can’t even get the girls I want to give me their attention”. There’s hope! Aside from Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, there are online sites that have hundreds of dating tips and suggestions to help you become more attractive to the ladies.

Can’t emphasize enough that you have to be clear on what your intentions are. If you just want to have some fun, you should definitely avoid the women who talk about having your babies on the first date. Same goes for the ones who begin plotting what your wedding will look like.

Dating is a skill just like walking or talking. Truth is you’ll never get good at it ’til you practice. Yes you may bomb out a few times but what will it matter. Aim to have a great time with who you’re with no matter what and you’ll be all set.